Friday, September 30, 2011

Podcast and dating article

Do you know the theology of a grape?

Listen to this week's Sunday podcast to find out:

My favorite thoughts from this podcast:
  • You're going to hear a lot about vineyards this week...When you learn about the theology of the grape: what a grape has to go through, in terms of the waiting and the seasons and the longing, there's a huge process. And when you work in a vineyard it's hard work... What ends up happening throughout all these seasons is that you have to be faithful, tenacious, disciplined and you have to wait on the Lord, and the Lord ultimately has a plan, but you have to be willing to wait on it and see it through.
  • What more would God have to do for you to trust him with everything?
  • It's hard sometimes to trust God for that whole season, because it takes discipline... Even in those hard times, God is still sending people and situations into our life to remind us how much he loves us.
  • This is reminding us once again that God gives us everything we need and gives us every opportunity to do what's right, to follow him and to listen to him...
  • In this first reading from Isaiah God says, look, I created a vineyard here and I did everything I was supposed to do, but wild grapes came. So now what am I supposed to do? ... I'm going to start over again.... Not because I did anything wrong but because you did.
  • What God is telling us this week is: listen, I've given you everything that you need to know me. What more would God need to do for you to trust him completely?


Also, I have a new article that's been posted at VirtuousPla.net about Catholic dating:
http://virtuouspla.net/2011/09/29/10-tips-for-catholic-dating/

It's also linked to here:
http://www.newadvent.org/
http://www.ncregister.com/daily-news/all-about-angels-ten-tips-for-catholic-dating-mother-of-the-unborn-and-much/

Let me know what you think! :)

Thursday, September 29, 2011

Frida Kahlo hair


I was looking through my Frida painting book and was inspired by her fashion and art. I wish I could dress like her, except more traditional Portuguese, in addition to Mexican...

I made two braids and pinned them up, using four bobby pins...

Frida Kahlo, the inspiration:
PS The photos effects were made with this free online photo editor I found: picnik.com
It's awesome!

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Fr. Barron's TV series Catholicism


I've been seeing things about Fr. Barron and his new series Catholicism on blogs and news sites, but only when I read about it on NCRegister did I understand how amazing this new series really is!

A chicago priest tells the board of the ministry he works for he wants to "to do something like Kenneth Clark’s Civilization, where he showed the beauty of civilization as he talked about it. I wanted to do the same for the Church by going to Europe, the Holy Land, Calcutta, Africa, Notre Dame Cathedral and elsewhere." Then, 5 years, 12 trips, 16 countries and $3 million later (all from private donations and a grassroots movement), it's done!

This 10-part series will be airing on PBS:
"I wasn't expecting much from PBS, but they called us down, and we met with their people. To my infinite delight and surprise, they said they thought it was well done, that it was visually compelling, that it would be interesting to non-Catholics and any religious seekers, and that they loved it."

Monday, September 26, 2011

Midnight in Paris


My BF and I pass by a billboard announcing movietimes everytime we walk from my house to the beach and everytime we think about how we'd like to go to that movie theater one day. We finally went and saw Woody Allen's new movie, Midnight in Paris. It was really good, I really recommend it. Woody Allen's movies seem to be either really good or really bad, but this one was funny and also really deep. I loved the lesson about living in the present.

It was an old movie theater in a teeny tiny "shopping mall", but it was cool because of that. There was a bell that told us when the movie was going to start and when the break was over. We were definitely the youngest people there... by far. We hadn't gone to the movies in AGES. It's so romantic!

Mini-marathon

This weekend I ran a marathon... well I can't really say it was a marathon (as my attentive American friends pointed out :P) because it was just about 6 km/4 miles. But it was pretty tiring nonetheless! It was a "mini-marathon" on one of the Lisbon's bridges. There are two really popular marathons in Lisbon, one on this bridge always around October and one on this bridge around April. This is the third or fourth mini-marathon my BF and I have gone to together. <3

It was awesome. Awesome to go there on public transportation with thousands of others also on their way. We could ride free because of having signed up for the marathon, so when we got to the metro and no one was there to let us pass all the marathon runners jumped the gate together. It was rebellious. ;) It was awesome to be out running on a bridge with thousands of other people running in front and behind me, wearing a t-shirt just like mine. And it was especially awesome to have icecream and sports drinks waiting for me at the end!

Friday, September 23, 2011

Changing out of love



Sunday, Sunday, SUNDAY!

Get ready to rumble!

Thoughts I most liked about this week's Sunday readings:
  • Just because you call your father "sir" doesn't mean you respect him. Because your disobedience shows disrespect. You have to understand, in the Mediterranean culture, in the time of Jesus, defiance/disrespect/disobedience is one of the worst things you can do. It's one of the worst of the worst things a child can be accused of, it's just absolutely terrible.
  • Taxcollectors and prostitutes are the very, very, very bottom of society's rung.
  • Even if they [tax collectors and prostitutes] initially rebelled, when they heard the message of John the Baptist they changed. Just like the first son in the story: just because he initially rebelled, he ended up changing for the right reason, out of love for the father, out of respect for the father.
  • The way that we live in pursuit of God is called virtue... this is how a man and a woman become who they were designed to be.
  • "Become who you are" - John Paul II
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Thursday, September 22, 2011

Portuguese pastries

They say take eggs, sugar and cinnamon and you have 90% of Portuguese desserts. Which is unfortunate, because I only like chocolate and very few desserts.

But there is one of Portugal's famous pastries that I definitely love, Pasteis de Belem... they're warm, creamy and flaky. They're one of the most (or the most) famous Portuguese pastries, and continue to be even after Starbucks opened up next door.

And go great with a meia de leite (coffee with milk). 

Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Coaches and culture

My sister's friends came to visit... they're REALLY, super nice!


And even though I wasn't able to hang out with them as much as I would've liked, it's always great to have visitors and show them around the beautiful country of Portugal. It makes me realize everytime what an amazing place I live in and how very little I take advantage of it.

I got to go to two museums I had never been to: the museum of ancient art and the museum of coaches. Really, who ever knew there were such beautiful, ornate coaches still around! It is crazy to think people actually rode in them hundreds of years ago.


My favorite coach... maybe for Christmas?


Coaches for kids... and I thought now they're spoiled

"The Princesses Coach"... and my favorite story:
"18th century. Used during the 'Princesses Exchange' ceremony on the border between Portugal and Spain. During this ceremony, Princess Maria Barbara left Portugal to marry the king of Spain, Fernando VI, and welcomed the Spanish Princess Mariana Vitoria to marry the king of Portugal, Jose I.

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

A journey in writing

This last year has definitely been a journey, perhaps the year in which I most grew in my life! It all started last summer, when I decided to quit my job and go for something I wanted. Then, throughout the year, I realized a lot of things, mainly: it's not about what I want... I'll just get lost in the process... it's about what God wants. I just wrote a post for a great new site a little about this journey:


And it's a black-and-white contrast to a post I wrote last year, right before quitting my job (in Portuguese):


The main difference? Last year I wrote from a place of resentment/anger and this year I write from a place of peace. I kind of take back what I wrote last year. But then again, maybe I'll take back what I'm writing this year in a year. I'm still on a journey! :)

Monday, September 19, 2011

My creative inspiration lately...

I've been thinking about...
... how to paint vases I have for my flowers. Here is my inspiration:

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Painting by Frida Kahlo

... how to make my mealtimes more special, especially when shared. Candles, flower petals and wine is where it's at I think. And more picnics.

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And after reading this post over at BadCatholic ;), all I've been listening to is Audrey Assad's CD.

Saturday, September 17, 2011

Sunday, Sunday, Sunday!

Time to get ready for Sunday!


This week's readings speak right to the struggle I've been having all week long, funny how that works, of envying what others have and thinking I deserve more.

My favorite thoughts from this week's podcast:
  • They were mistaking the landowner's generosity for some sort of injustice. And honestly isn't that how most of us go through life? We have the same kind of struggle: what's mine is mine, what's yours is yours. But see sin is when we think everything is ours. Sin is when we look at the world around us and we have that sense of entitlement: "I deserve more". This is where envy comes in.
  • Forget the fact that we we were born into privilege, into a first-world country... forget all those blessings for a second. But how often do we look around, just at the physical world, and we're constantly aware of how other people have more. And that can really be a trap, that can be something that enslaves us.
  • How blessed are we that God would even want us to work in the vineyard?
  • If you've heard that call of God, who cares how much we're getting paid? Because we're getting paid in the opportunity to know God intimately.
  • Seek the Lord, don't wait for him just to seek you... seek him.
  • Do we really go running to the Lord for mercy and just hoping that he would want to use us or do we just wait to be called and then complain about the terms of the agreement?
  • The only thing in my life that's really mine is my sin. Everything else we have, every gift, every blessing, every skill, every talent is a gift from God the Father, that we have no right to use for our own glory, no right to use for our own earthly prominence. Everything that you and I have is a gift from God. Even those things that we've worked hard at, that we've practiced... even that work ethic is a gift from God.

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Friday, September 16, 2011

Summer of love

   I had a really great summer this year, I've been very blessed. I got to spend it with the people closest to me, but that I don't get to see that often. Not only did I get to spend lots of quality time with my parents in the Azores, but I got to spend lots of quality time with my boyfriend, Daniel. First we visited his family in the North of Portugal and then we went to World Youth Day together.
   Now that we're back to our routines and houses far away from each other here in Lisbon, it seems like those days in the North were so long ago. We both miss that time already! We slept in hammocks, hiked, swam in the river (it's like the beach up there, the whole village goes!),washed dishes, talked to his grandpa, danced at local festivities, sat on the porch looking at the stars. Here are some pictures... 


Our dream house would be something like this...

A romantic pizza dinner...

The river where we swam


Hiking...
 


Going to church on Sunday

Thursday, September 15, 2011

2. We are made as gifts to each other and the body expresses that

This post is about the very first section of Theology of the Body (highlighted):    
      Part 1: Who Are We? Establishing an Adequate Anthropology
         Cycle 1: Original Man (Catecheses 1-23)        

         Cycle 2: Historical Man 
         Cycle 3: Eschatological Man
      Part 2: How Are We to Live? Applying an Adequate Anthropology
         Cycle 4: Christ and the Church
         Cycle 5: The Dimension of Sign
         Cycle 6: Love and Fruitfulness



The Pharisees come to Jesus with a burning question, testing him as they seem to do so many times. “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any reason?” Jesus answers their question, just as he answers our contemporary questions, without falling into their trap, and he does so by pointing to a totally different reality. The question can’t be answered on the level and terms they’re placing it at… he tries to show them the BIGGER picture and does so by pointing them to the BEGINNING. “From the beginning it was not so” he says twice.
John Paul II takes us carefully along the path Jesus indicated, when he pointed to the beginning, and the reflections on the theology of the body begin by retelling that beginning. This part looks at questions like: Who am I? Who created me? Why? What’s the purpose of life? What does it mean to be created in the image of God? What does it mean to be created male and female? What is happiness? What is love?
John Paul II recounts step by step and breaks open, always with reference to Christ’s words, the two creation stories in Genesis. We learn in this very ancient story, which is also our story, that man is created with much intention and thought from God. As God goes along, creating this and that at a fast-paced rhythm, he stops before creating man (TOB 2:3). Almost as if he is aware of the risk that it is to create man... who with free will can do a lot of damage. God stops and takes the blueprint for man out of HIMSELF. So although man is very obviously tied to the physical world, it is also obvious that he is different. He, like God, is able to subdue and control the world and he receives all of creation as a gift. “Creation is a gift, because man appears in it, who, as an ‘image of God,’ is able to understand the very meaning of the gift in the call from nothing to existence” (TOB 13:4).
Three very important words/themes in this first section are SOLITUDE, UNITY and NAKEDNESS. This first realization of man, that he is different from the rest of the world, is the linked to the first part of this solitude. Man is made in the image of God, even more… he’s a “partner of the Absolute” (TOB 6:2) and this is a great gift: “Man is ‘alone’: this is to say that through his own humanity, through what he is, he is at the same time set into a unique, exclusive, and unrepeatable relationship with God himself” (TOB 6:2). Yet another part of this solitude is that it OPENS HIM UP to another… it doesn’t close him up all by himself. Creation is complete when man wakes up as man and woman and Adam rejoices when he sees Eve! He says “AT LAST, this is flesh from my flesh…” as if he’s been searching for a long time. And she is taken from his rib, meaning that she is the same kind of different he is… before being his bride, she is his sister in the same humanity (remind you of Song of Songs? My sister, my bride…). Before, Adam knew he didn’t identify with any of the animals God had created, but now he knows he identifies with Eve… “The man recognizes and finds his own humanity ‘with the help’ of the woman” (TOB 12:3).
And so the second word, UNITY, comes into play. Adam realizes that he was made not only for God, but also for Eve. Not only is he the image of God because of his ability to rule the world, but also through his ability to unite with another, through the communion of persons. First he received the world as a gift and now he receives the other human being as a gift. And he is so happy to receive her! It is the first time man speaks in the text and “one could even venture to say that the depth and power of this first and ‘original’ emotion of the man before the humanity of the woman…seems something unique and unrepeatable” (TOB 9:1). Man discovers himself in the woman and the woman “at the same time ‘discovers herself,’ thanks to the fact that she has been received by the man” (TOB 17:5). And here we begin to see the revolution that these papal reflections are: all along the centuries, theologians (St. Augustine, St. Thomas Aquinas) have interpreted "being made in the image of God" as our rational, capacity. Pope John Paul II says yes to this, but we are image of God ALSO in the communion of persons. The mystery of the trinity, an eternal exchange of love between three persons, is imprinted in our humanity! We were made to give ourselves to others, give and receive love.
This exultation of Adam before Eve, their union, their ability to give themselves totally to each other is made possible by their INNOCENCE before the fall (the next section will take up what happens with the fall). And this is because they were “naked, but did not feel shame”. This “did not feel shame” isn’t a lack of something, as if they were imperfect, but is rather a FULLNESS. Man recognizes his humanity by seeing the woman, and this “act of discovery on the part of both brings about at the same time a perception of the world that occurs directly through the body (‘flesh of my flesh’)” (TOB 12:3). Before sin, Adam still sees as God sees and is able to see the original good of his plan: “’Nakedness’ signifies the original good of the divine vision” (TOB 13:1). He sees in the body of the woman not an object for his pleasure and use (that’s after the fall), but instead he sees the human identity of both, the reciprocity and complementarities of both. The body says something: that we were made for another. He still sees it as a gift for him, just as he is a gift for her. “The body, which expresses femininity ‘for’ masculinity and, vice versa, masculinity ‘for’ femininity, manifests the reciprocity and the communion of persons. It expresses it through GIFT AS THE FUNDAMENTAL CHARACTERISTIC OF PERSONAL EXISTENCE” (TOB 14:4). The body is able to express love. Original innocence is right intention because it is consciousness of the meaning of the body. They are able to see the FULLNESS of being mutual gifts to one another, not reducing the other to an object for use. “Happiness is being rooted in Love. Original happiness speaks to us about the ‘beginning’ of man, who emerged from love and initiated love” (TOB 16:2).
The roots of love start here, and we see we are created to manifest and embody love, and we also catch a glimmer of what the opposite of love is… use… which will be come up in the next section.
The Bathers by Pierre-Auguste Renoir
The Bathers by Renoir

Original innocence is seeing from the inside out, seeing the invisible in the visible. Artists also see from the heart and struggle to share it with the world. We see the Renoir's intention here to portray innocence very clearly, as was explained to me by Fr. Thomas Loya.
and a little snippet of music: http://www.resonanceofthegift.com/Communion_of_Persons.html

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

1. What is Theology of the Body?



I first heard about Theology of the Body my senior year in high school. I bought a book about it, Theology of the Body for Beginners, though I don't remember when that was or even if I read it. I just had it with me when I came to Portugal. Then, my third year here in Portugal, when I started going to the parish where my youth group is at, they asked me, "have you heard of Theology of the Body?" I was pretty lucky to end up at probably the only parish in Portugal where there is a group of people interested in TOB. And, with that group, I've also been lucky enough to have gone to a TOB retreat here in Portugal, the 2nd International TOB Symposium in Ireland, the 1st National TOB Congress in Pennsylvania and, last June, the 3rd International TOB Symposium in London. I actually just found an article where I'M QUOTED (and didn't know it!) about all this here.

So I've had all these amazing opportunities, but I've never actually read Man and Woman He Created Them: A Theology of the Body in its entirety. So now is the time, I've already started... I'm reading till the end! And since I'm currently camera-less (and therefore unable to post pics on my blog), I've decided this is the perfect opportunity to get to work and post my own summaries of each section here on this blog.

First things first, what is TOB?
- A guide to who we are, what we're destined for and what will truly satisfy us.
- An explanation of the Gospel and how to live it.
- The "deep roots from which spring" Catholic teaching on love and sexuality. 
- A vision of what being human really means and how we can live life in a way that will bring true happiness. 
- An explanation of the Church's position on contraception and other reproductive technologies. The reasons behind the encyclical Humanae Vitae.
- 129 catechesis on human love in the divine plan delivered by Pope John Paul II at Wednesday General Audiences (in St. Peter's Square) between the years of 1979 to 1984.
- John Paul II's masterwork.
- "John Paul II's theology of the body is most often cast as an extended catechesis on marriage and sexual love. It certainly is that, but it is also much more. Through the mystery of the incarnate person and the biblical analogy of spousal love, John Paul II's catechesis illumines the entirety of God's plan for human life from origin to eschaton with a splendid supernatural light. It's not only a response to the sexual revolution, it's a response to the Enlightenment. It's a response to modern rationalism, Cartesian dualism, super-spiritualism, and all the disembodied anthropologies infecting the modern world. In short, the theology of the body is one of the Catholic Church's most critical efforts in modern times to help the world become more 'conscious of the mystery and reality of the Incarnation' - and, through that, to become more conscious of the humanum, of the very purpose and meaning of human life." - Christopher West in the preface of TOB

I'll be writing my summaries using Christopher West's division of TOB, before the latest translation in English, because I like it better. So go ahead and click on each cycle number to read about that section. They will be coming gradually, as I am able to read them.

      Part 1: Who Are We? Establishing an Adequate Anthropology
         Cycle 1: Original Man
         Cycle 2: Historical Man
         Cycle 3: Eschatological Man
      Part 2: How Are We to Live? Applying an Adequate Anthropology
         Cycle 4: Christ and the Church
         Cycle 5: The Dimension of Sign
         Cycle 6: Love and Fruitfulness
      TOB Online Resources

Disclaimer: In my summaries, I'll just be writing a few of my thoughts and reflections on TOB from my reading. I hope that it won't "reduce" TOB in anyone's view or think that it is something that can be summarized. TOB is official Church teaching, in line with 2000 years of teaching, and is meant to be a starting point to be reflected, appropriated, lived, etc. It's a time-bomb just now starting to go off in this CENTURY. So please don't think TOB is just what I write here... please look into the many resources and courses becoming more and more readily available. ;)

Let's go!

"In the Sistine Chapel's The Creation of Adam by Michelangelo, we see that as God looks down at the passage of energy from his right arm through his index finger into Adam's left hand, he affectionately holds Eve under his other arm, her left hand resting gently above his wrist with her index finger slightly raised. Though she is still only an idea in God's mind, her eyes are intensely fixed on the eyes of Adam, who turns toward God's face and returns her look." - Inside cover of English version of TOB

Monday, September 12, 2011

LifeTeen at World Youth Day

LifeTeen interviewed and took photos of me and my youth group at World Youth Day and the video is finally out today! Unfortunately, they didn't use any of MY great interview material ;) but fortunately they did get someone from Portugal... and he's really great! It's our teen named Ze and he's at 4:07, then we're all pictured yelling and jumping. The video is cool too, with or without us in it. ;)


And some pictures:

Sunday, September 11, 2011

Forgiveness

24th Sunday, Sunday, Sunday! in Ordinary Time:


My favorite parts:
  • To err is human, to forgive divine.
  • How far are we willing to go when we love other people?
  • In our life we don't trust God, but we want to trust him with our death. We're going to kind of play this game with God: We don't fully trust him, we don't fully give him our hearts, we don't fully surrender or fully try to love like him, but then we expect he is going to deliver us in our deaths.
  • Can I say that that's really how we go about our day: if you live, you live for the Lord. And when we die those little deaths, we die for the Lord, until we ultimately die our final death.
  • When we hurt others, we're really only hurting ourselves in the process.
  • Thank God that He is kinder than we are... always merciful not just when He feels like it.
  • That's what the cross means: to love until it hurts and to go even further.
 
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Friday, September 09, 2011

Hand-washing



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Today I washed the four rugs I have in my house by hand. It was awesome. There is this huge pool in the town center, two minutes away from my house, where people used to wash their clothes a long time ago. I think mainly gypsies use it now, but everytime I walk past it I think of when I'm going to get up the courage to use it.

Today was that day! I bought the most traditional soap that everyone in Portugal swears by, blue and white soap, took my rugs, scrubbed and dipped. A little girl came and stared at me. It was kind of like the picture below (a pool that size with running water):

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I'd like to embrace the lifestyle of poverty. The more I learn to live with less, the more I appreciate things and reuse things. Before, anytime anything was dirty and I didn't know how to clean it, I'd throw it out and buy a new one. Now, I'm learning to value more the things I have and take better care of them.