Monday, October 31, 2011

Halloween


Should Christians celebrate Halloween? Not only is Halloween an originally and praying for the dead is the highly recommended, but I totally agree with Jennifer of Conversion diary when quotes the article "The Fun of Fear" and says that playing with the things that scare us can be therapeutic:
"We often play with our fears in ways that can be beneficial to our souls by establishing a proper context for them—otherwise known as theater."Read more: http://www.ncregister.com/blog/jennifer-fulwiler/what-dressing-up-as-a-scorpion-taught-me-about-halloween/#ixzz1cOwnxXQk

I also like what the great G.K. Chesterton says about taking ourselves lightly: "Angels, G. K. Chesterton famously asserted, can fly because they take themselves lightly. But the fallen angels do not. Satan is traditionally seen as a pompous figure, and that is why in the Middle Ages they knew that the best way to deal with devils was to laugh at them. Gargoyles with grotesque faces defended our holy places with the power of mockery. The fourteenth-century Macclesfield Psalter, for example, is filled with ribald humour, absurd devils and naked bottoms, scratched out by puritans who thought that religion was a more serious matter. Fernando Cervantes demonstrated that people stopped representing the Devil at some point in early modernity not because we ceased to worry about him but because we had become too afraid." - Why Go to Church? by Timothy Radcliffe OP

My Halloween party:

Preparations
Idea here
used, empty jars painted orange, with candle inside
Branches painted black... a place to hang the homemade masks
Paper pumpkins
Felt cut-out bats on the walls, yellow and orange balloons
Ideas here

Beet soup with eyeballs

Great masks to make! Cut out black felt, glue on petals of artificial flowers. Idea here
Dancing... "THRILLER!'
HAPPY HALLOWEEN!!!

Friday, October 28, 2011

4. Celibates skip earthly marriage and point to heaven

This post is about the third section of Theology of the Body (highlighted):    
      Part 1: Who Are We? Establishing an Adequate Anthropology
         Cycle 1: Original Man
         Cycle 2: Historical Man  
         Cycle 3: Eschatological Man (Catecheses 64-86)    
      Part 2: How Are We to Live? Applying an Adequate Anthropology
         Cycle 4: Christ and the Church
         Cycle 5: The Dimension of Sign
         Cycle 6: Love and Fruitfulness

     We are called to communion with others, but the truth is a human relationship will never satisfy us completely. Adam was created first alone, and he was worthy of being called to communion with God. Christ came to give us the power to live the way we were created to be in the beginning, but we won't go back to that state of original innocence. We're actually destined for something greater and Christ's resurrection confirmed it: the resurrection of the body.
     In this section, John Paul II looks at the resurrection of the body, with Christ's answer to the Sadducees (Mt 22:24-30; Mk 12:18-27; Lk 20:27-40) as his starting point. The Sadducees ask about marriage in heaven, but by Christ's answer we see that "marriage and procreation do not definitely determine the original and fundamental meaning of being a body nor of being, as a body, male and female. Marriage and procreation only give concrete reality to that meaning in the dimensions of history. The resurrection indicates the closure of the historical dimension" (69:4).
     The resurrection of the body is connected to the communion of saints. On earth, the sacrament of marriage points out that we are made for communion, and in heaven that communion will be consummated. The perfect union with God will also make possible a perfect union among people: there will be a "rediscovery of a new, perfect intersubjectivity of all" (68:4).
     It will be a "wholly new state of human life itself" (66:3). Body and spirit will be one again, without opposition between the two. No longer will the law of "I do not do what I want, but I do what I hate" (Rm 7:15) be at war in man, but instead there will be a new submission of the body to the spirit. This is not to say by any means that the spirit is "better" than the body! This is not a "victory" of the spirit over the body, but a "perfect participation of all that is bodily in man and all that is spiritual in him" (67:2).
     For this to happen, for body and spirit to be in perfect cooperation, a radical transformation has to occur. Man is in tension between the weakness he discovered in himself after the fall ("For you are dust, and to dust you shall return" Gn 3:19) and the redemption at work in him. John Paul II reflects on the passage from 1 Cor 15:42-49 in more detail to say that his "weak" or "natural" body carries the aspiration to become "full of power" and "spiritual", which happens in the resurrection of the body. 
     Marriage shows us what God's love is like. It shows us that we are made for communion, in the image of the trinity. Celibates point us to heaven and show us that this is not our final resting point. To be married here on earth is not our ultimate goal: to accept marriage with God is.... and this will be consummated in the banquet of heaven. The celibate show us this with the amazing decision he/she makes to skip marriage and procreation here on earth and live completely pointed toward the heavenly marriage. Christ explains this when he says some will choose "continence for the kingdom" (Mt 19:12). He says FOR the kingdom and not IN the kingdom, thereby defining celibacy as an anticipation and a charismatic sign of the end times.
     Christ's words in this passage, and his own example of celibacy, mark a radical change of direction, even from the Old Testament tradition. Celibacy and virginity simply do not exist in the Old Testament. In fact, when a young girl by the name of Jephthah is condemned to die, she asks to be able to first go mourn her virginity... mourn the fact that she wasn't able to do the most worthwhile thing in life: marry and have children (Judg 11:37). Christ points to a completely new reality and celibacy in this way has the feature of being distinctly Christlike. The apostles must have associated this new concept of celibacy with a certain likeness to Christ.
     Celibacy and marriage explain and complete each other, they are two sides of the same coin. They both point to love, but one more to what we were created for and the other to what we are destined for. In both vocations, man is called to become a "sincere gift for others" (Gaudium et Spes, 24:3). Celibacy and marriage are different, but complementary, and they are each a gift from God: "Each has his own gift from God, one in one way and another in another" (1 Cor 7:7). How do celibates help those who are married and vice versa? Here are some quotes to explain:
  • "Perfect conjugal love must be marked by the faithfulness and the gift to the one and only Bridegroom (and also by the faithfulness and the gift of the Bridegroom to the one and only Bride) on which religious profession and priestly celibacy are based" (78:4).
  • "We do not forget that the one and only key for understanding the sacramentality of marriage is the spousal love of Christ for the Church (see Eph 5:22-23), of Christ who was son of the Virgin, who himself was a virgin, that is, 'a eunuch for the kingdom of heaven' in the most perfect sense of the term" (81:4).
  • "Continence indirectly serves to highlight what is most lasting and most profoundly personal in the conjugal vocation, what corresponds in the dimensions of temporality (and at the same time in the perspective of the 'other world') to the dignity of the personal gift connected with the spousal meaning of the body in its masculinity or femininity" (81:6).
  • "On the other hand, spousal love that finds its expression in continence 'for the kingdom of heaven' must lead in its normal development to 'fatherhood' or 'motherhood' in the spiritual sense..." (78:5).
     Celibacy shows us that the body's end is not death, but glorification. Does it include sacrifice? Yes, just as much as marriage does. The celibate answers in a particular way the Redeemer's spousal love, and the greatness of his decision lies in a mature answer to a particular gift of the Spirit. John Paul II reminds us that the human heart seems wired to accept difficult demands in the name of love, above all in the name of love for a person. For the celibate this person is Christ, and he/she is oriented by the "love of Christ himself as the Bridegroom of the Church, Bridegroom of souls, to whom he has given himself to the end (cf. Jn 13:1; 19:30) in the mystery of his Passover and of the Eucharist" (79:9).

Frodo, a great example of celibacy for the kingdom

     This sacrifice of love, this acceptance of Christ as the ultimate Bridegroom, this pointing toward heaven is an incredible sign of hope for all of mankind. Sin came into the world and still has its mark on all of creation, but hope is also implanted in the human heart. The celibate points to this hope which all of creation cherishes that "it itself will be set free from the slavery of corruption to enter into the freedom of the children of God" (Rm 8:21). "We await precisely the eschatalogical victory over death, to which Christ gave witness above all with his resurrection" (86:5).

And some music:

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Cleaning and singing

I've been trying to take care of my house, incorporated into more of a routine. I used to try to do everything Saturday morning: clean the house, wash clothes, make soup, go grocery shopping, etc. A few times I even spent the entire day doing things like that and I would just feel burnt out. Now I wash clothes on Monday, go grocery shopping on Thursday, clean the house on Friday, etc. and it's SO much better! When I actually stick to my routines I feel great, just by having my house and myself (exercise and cooking) taken care of. It's not as easy to get depressed when you are taking care of your home, although I think it might be the chicken and the egg syndrome.

And what's better than cranking up "Thalia con banda" really loud, singing, and making your house fresh-smelling and shiny? Never have I enjoyed it so much as now. The last time I was cleaning my house I actually thought, wow I feel sorry for people who don't get to do this.


I think it's a little like what Henry David Thorough talks about in Walden. We get so caught up in the unimportant, complex things in life that we forget about the very basic, simple things that animals do and we miss out on. I think cleaning your house is one of those things and, like cooking, fewer and fewer people do them nowadays and more and more pay other people to do them.

Henry David Thoreau“There is some of the same fitness in a man's building his own house that there is in a bird's building its own nest. Who knows but if men constructed their dwellings with their own hands, and provided food for themselves and families simply and honestly enough, the poetic faculty would be universally developed, as birds universally sing when they are so engaged? But alas! we do like cowbirds and cuckoos, which lay their eggs in nests which other birds have built, and cheer no traveller with their chattering and unmusical notes. Shall we forever resign the pleasure of construction to the carpenter?” ― Henry David Thoreau

PS Also, check out my article on VirtuousPla.net here: Obedience to God through people (ouch!)

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Changing seasons


If you don't know who Matt Maher is, you should find out. He's a great musician and I've been listening to his latest CD over and over again. I especially like the song "New State of Mind" and the following:


I'm glad winter is here. Sunday we got the first rain of the season and it's been rainy ever since. Plants are bright green... I've left my basil out in the rain and it's never looked better. It's almost time for my favorite holiday (Christmas!) and I'm thinking of all sorts of ideas for celebrating new ones in the meantime.

I've loved going to sleep listening to the rain, wearing boots and drinking hot tea. Can't wait to use my fireplace (for the first time!) and eat chestnuts.

Monday, October 24, 2011

Pumpkin-carrot soup



The ingredients:
1 onion
2-4 garlic cloves
1 tablespoon peeled ginger
2 potatoes
4 carrots
1 leek
about 2 cups chopped pumpkin (half of what's in the picture)
optional: soy cream

The recipe:
  1. Roughly chop the vegetables and place them in a large pot with just enough water to cover the vegetables. Bring to a boil and add 1/2 teaspoon course salt.
  2. Boil for about 10 minutes, or until vegetables are tender. Puree with a handheld blender.
  3. Add cream and salt if needed. Drizzle on a little olive oil.
Enjoy your beautiful, healthy, homemade soup!

Friday, October 21, 2011

Being a person of prayer

Do you just run around trying to work miracles?
Or do you listen twice as much as you talk?

Prepare yourself for this week's intimate encounter with God:

My favorite points:
  • Jesus had a rhythm of prayer, he was disciplined in prayer. He didn't just run around and work miracles, he didn't just run around and spit on the ground and heal people of blindness, and heal the lame and heal the lepers. He was a person of prayer. To be a man/woman after God's own heart, you have to be a person or prayer.
  • It's not enough just to sit around talking about God, you have to talk to God. And once you pray, you have to act.
  • God is a theological concept for a lot of people, but when push comes to shove and it actually comes time to pray or to act, a lot of times people don't move.
  • The first reading is all justice, mercy, it's the practical, it's the actions that are supposed to follow from this relationship that God had anointed them with in the covenant.
  • St. Paul says you can't see Jesus in the flesh right now, but you can see us and we're trying to be imitators of the Lord.
  • Prayer is how you love the Lord your God with all your soul and not just with all your mind.
  • You probably want to listen twice as much as you talk.
  • Only after you pray do you want to act, because only then can you be certain it's God's will and not yours.
source

And check out a great resource in Italian: La Domenica con Benedetto XVI

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Making birthday cards

Instructions for making your own greeting cards:
  1. Pick out pretty paper.
  2. Find inspiration for pattern/art (ours here, here and here).
  3. Get together with a friend, cut, draw and glitter pen. Relive your kindergarten days.
  4. Imagine the person you are writing the card to has died and you are speaking at their funeral. Write the gist of what you would say.
  5. Send or give in person with love.
 

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

The Nun's Story

Yesterday was the first  "Audrey Hepburn movie session" with my friend Sofia. We're going to watch her movies together. We watched "The Nun's Story" and I was pleasantly surprised. I think if that same movie were made today, there would be more inaccuracy in the portrayal of life in a convent and Catholic theology. I was surprised, though, because the movie was really good and the convent was kind of a background story, not too focused on and also not attacked. I really liked the theme of pride and humility. They would confess their faults to one another and correct each other and it was said that the degree in which it was difficult to do so was the degree in which pride was still alive in you. I also liked how she had to wait to get what she wanted, how she had to be patient and had to be prepared by time in order to be mature enough for it. Disappointment is an important lesson, a nun told her. Here are some other quotes I liked:
 
“You must learn to accept with love whatever comes to you.”
“The more we are looked to for examples, the better examples we become.”
“The sacrifices required of us are bearable only if we make them with love.”
 
 
“I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles.” ― Audrey Hepburn
 
PS To learn about real nuns, and happy nuns, the best place is to learn directly from them and not from mainstream movies. I love, for example, the Sisters of Life and Dominican Sisters of Mary... who were on Oprah!

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Passionfruit mousse


The ingredients:
3 gelatin sheets
4 small yogurts or 400g soy cream
1 can passionfruit pulp (or mango for mango mousse)
1 can condensed milk

The recipe:
  1. Dip the gelatin sheets in a small bowl of water (room temperature) for seven minutes. Heat a couple of teaspoons of water in the microwave until boiling and add the drained gelatin sheets. Mix until dissolved.
  2. Mix together all the ingredients in a large bowl. Cover and put in the refrigerator.
  3. Refrigerate for a few hours, or until firm, then enjoy!!!

Monday, October 17, 2011

The market



Last Saturday I finally did something I've been wanting to do for a long time: I went to the market. I can finally say I do number 4 on the list above (a picture from Pinterest I put on my recipes page). I'm lucky enough to have two markets close to my house, one that operates Thursday mornings and one on Saturdays. I definitely know the value of buying things at a local market, but I've been scared of going all this time. Why? I don't know. Fear of the unknown, fear of having to establish relationships with the vendor, fear of getting ripped off. My landlady said she'd go with me, so I was decided to go last Saturday... but when I knocked on her door she wasn't home! I was just about to go to the grocery store when I got a call from my BF who encouraged me to go.

So off I went, but I was still pretty scared. I know, who gets scared about going to the market? Wimps like me. I'm so glad I went though. It was packed full of people, mostly older people, and there were A LOT of stands. And not only fruits and veggies: I especially loved the baby fruit trees, the striped orchids and even goldfish!


Approaching the market, in fear and trembling

After circling around, I decided to go to a stand where there were a lot of people (you had to take a number) and where the prices were clearly marked. When she told me the price at the end I asked "but... for everything?" I was so confused... three euros for a bag full of vegetables! I compared the prices to the grocery store prices when I got home (prices per kilo, grocery store Pingo Doce):
carrots: 0.49 grocery store; 0.60 market
tomato: 1.29 grocery store; 0.50 market
grapes: 1.99 grocery store; 1.50 market
leek: 0.58 grocery store; 0.50 market
red bell pepper: 1.49 grocery store; 1.00 market
pumpkin: 1.99 grocery store; 0.75 market


So why would you NOT go to the market? It's cheaper, things are fresh and local and tastier (according to my landlady who says the fruit in grocery stores isn't good). Plus it's a much more personal experience... and it's fun! I saw an older couple shopping together at the market, comparing the prices of chestnuts from one stand to the other and thought of the single, young people you see at supermarkets buying frozen or processed food. Even though the typical person that shops at a supermarket in Portugal has a higher literacy rate and income, I would say the typical person that shops at the local market has more quality of life. What is life really about anyway?

Now every week I'll be getting my fruit and vegetables at the market!

Friday, October 14, 2011

Sunday Sunday Sunday Podcast



Where does power come from?

Listen to this week's Sunday podcast to find out:

My favorite thoughts:
  • You can obey authority in an earthly way, but you still have to obey authority in a heavenly way.
  • God's natural law is always going to overpower man-made law.
  • God is reminding us, authority comes from ME. I am the law, you are just the ones that are supposed to carry out my law.
  • God gives power to the people he chooses.
  • God is the ultimate authority.
  • At the end of the day, there is truth and all truth comes from God.
  • Give to God what belongs to God... and that's you.
Mosaic of Christ Pantocrator

Thursday, October 13, 2011

Sofia in Amélie


My friend Sofia is a really good cook...
She says her secret ingredient is ginger. She's actually pretty secretive about it, don't tell her I told you. She adds it in whenever she uses onion and garlic.
She's really good at improvising, something I wish I could do. She'll cook up a fabulous pasta by saying, ok let's grill some peppers over here, and steam some broccoli and asparagus over there and squeeze in some beautifully cut lemons. All in a very nonchalant way. Then she'll serve it with exotic pomegranate juice and make you feel like you're in a gourmet restaurant.

It's great!

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Do it again

“Because children have abounding vitality, because they are in spirit fierce and free, therefore they want things repeated and unchanged. They always say, "Do it again"; and the grown-up person does it again until he is nearly dead. For grown-up people are not strong enough to exult in monotony. But perhaps God is strong enough to exult in monotony. It is possible that God says every morning, "Do it again" to the sun; and every evening, "Do it again" to the moon. It may not be automatic necessity that makes all daisies alike; it may be that God makes every daisy separately, but has never got tired of making them. It may be that He has the eternal appetite of infancy; for we have sinned and grown old, and our Father is younger than we.” ― G.K. Chesterton
...I think it's also possible that God says every minute to the waves, "Do it again":

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

3. The opposite of love is use

This post is about the second section of Theology of the Body (highlighted):    
      Part 1: Who Are We? Establishing an Adequate Anthropology
         Cycle 1: Original Man
         Cycle 2: Historical Man (Catecheses 24-63)     
         Cycle 3: Eschatological Man
      Part 2: How Are We to Live? Applying an Adequate Anthropology
         Cycle 4: Christ and the Church
         Cycle 5: The Dimension of Sign
         Cycle 6: Love and Fruitfulness

     After taking up the meaning of Christ's appeal to the beginning, John Paul II now focuses on Christ's appeal to the heart... the inner man... in this second and longest part of TOB. The first part went back to Genesis and to our "beginning", to which Christ pointed us back to when He said "in the beginning it was not so". Christ now points to the heart of his listeners, the Pharisees, and speaks to them about the state in which we also find ourselves... sinfulness, after the fall. No longer are we in the state of original innocence to which Christ pointed to, in which everything functions as God created it to be, but we live with the effects of sin, which Christ now calls "hardness of heart". We are the HISTORICAL MAN, to which Christ says now in Matthew 5:27-28 "Whoever looks to desire has committed adultery in the heart."
     To explain this "look of desire" John Paul II turns back to the reflection on original innocence, in which the birth of this negative look is described. Creation was pure gift. Adam was created as God's very image and the world was given to him as a gift. He was created for Eve and Eve was created for him, they were "naked without shame"... In original innocence, Adam saw Eve in the fullness of her person. He understood that she was like him, a sister in humanity and that she was a gift from God... he exulted in poetry: "Flesh of my flesh!" He understood that she was made for him vice versa and that they were called to interpersonal communion.
     Adam, and all of us, failed the test of trust. A key part in this description of Genesis, which seems to be highlighted, is when Adam and Eve cast doubt on the gift. He doesn't believe that everything was created well and for his own good. He believes in the words of the tempter, "You will be like gods, knowing good and evil" and doesn't trust that the one who created him loves him and knows best. "By casting doubt in his heart on the deepest meaning of the gift, that is, on love as the specific motive of creation and of the original covenant (see Gen 3:5), man turns his back on God-love, on the 'Father.' He in some sense casts hims from his heart." (TOB 26:4)
     After this decisive breach, Adam and Eve suffer various effects of sin, from which we also suffer today. A new element shows up: shame. "The birth of shame shows us the moment in which the inner man, 'the heart,' by closing itself to what 'comes from the Father,' opens itself to what 'comes from the world" (TOB 28:5). They hide themselves from God: "In this perspective, Adam's words in Genesis 3:10, 'I was afraid, because I am naked, and I hid myself,' seem to express the awareness of being defenseless, and the sense of insecurity about his somatic structure in the face of the processes of nature that operate with an inevitable determinism" (TOB 27:4). Not only is there this shame toward God, but they feel shame toward one another, and so a also a closure to each other. They covered their bodies. The body now, in the dimension of the world, is also unprotected. While in the beginning Adam looked at Eve and understood from the simplicity and fullness of her body also the value of her person, now their sexuality is an obstacle in their relationship. They are no longer united, but now set against each other. Adam no longer exclaims love poetry about his beloved, but blames her for the state in which they find themselves. The body is still a sign of love the way God created it to be and "does not cease to arouse the desires for personal union, precisely due to masculinity and femininity" (TOB 31:3), but now the way they look at the body is differnt. There is the negative look of desire which Jesus talked about in the Sermon of the Mount. "Your desire shall be for your husband, but he will dominate you" (Gn 3:16). "The communion of persons - which consists in the spiritual unity of the two subjects who gave themselves to each other - is replaced by a different mutual relationship, namely, by a realationship of possession of the other as an object of one's own desire" (TOB 31:2). "I give myself to you" changes to "I use you".
     Sexual desire and sexual pleasure are in themselves good, says John Paul II, but desire becomes negative (lust) when it sees only one dimension of the person and reduces the full attractiveness of that person to the attractiveness of sexual pleasure alone. Adam can no longer see with purity. The meaning of the body doesn't change... but our vision and way of living this in the body is changed. No longer is the spirit revealed and seen through the body as naturally as it was created to. There is an interior imbalance, with roots in this original distrust, fear and shame. "The body is not subject to the spirit as in the state of original innocence, but carries within itself a constant hotbed of resistance against the spirit and threatens in some way man's unity as a person" (TOB 28:3). 
     The relationship in which both people were gifts to one another required a certain type of balance, in which both gave themselves freely to one another and in this "reciprocal 'belonging' of the persons who, uniting in wuch a way as to be 'one flesh' (Gen 2:24), are at the same time called to belong to each other" (TOB 33:3). The words of Genesis 3:15, in which man dominates over woman, certainly point to a new imbalance and also seems so suggest it happens more at the the woman's expense, even though the woman also uses in a different way. It seems though that the "man ought to have been 'from the beginning' the guardian of the reciprocity of the gift and of its true balance" (TOB 33:2).
     In this negative desire, the next step after domination is enjoyment. "Flaring up in the man, it invades his senses, arouses his body, draws the feelings along with itself, and in some way takes possession of the 'heart.' ... Once the inner man has been reduced to silence and passion has, as it were, gained freedom of action, passion manifests itself as an insistent tendency toward satisfying the senses and the body. ... the man whose will is occupied with satisfying the senses does not find rest nor does he find himself, but on the contrary 'consumes himself.'" (TOB 39:2)
     What Jesus says on the Sermon of the Mount is that the looks expresses what is in the heart. Shifting the blame of adultery from the body to the heart, he points his listeners to their own experiences of inner detachment. This negative desire and negative look is a reduction: a reduction in the way of viewing that reflects a closure to God and to the other, a closure of the horizon of the mind and the heart. We are once again pointed towards man's very intentions.
     Although this imbalance and negative desire to use the other comes from the heart, this doesn't mean that this defines the heart. Christ's appeal to the beginning makes this clear... this is not what we were created to be! Man is called to rediscover the true and FULL meaning of the body... this is, that we were created by Love, created to love and be loved. "The words of Christ, who in the Sermon on the Mount appeals to the 'heart,' lead the listener in some way to such an inner call. If he allows them to work in him he can at the same time hear in his innermost [being] the echo, as it were, of that 'beginning,' of that good 'beginning' to which Christ appealed on another occasion to remind his listeners who man is, who woman is, and who they are reciprocally: one for the other in the work of creation." (TOB 46:5)
      On the Sermon of the Mount, Christ is correcting a wrong way of understanding moral purity, that had developed as exclusively external and "material". "Christ opposed it in a radical manner: nothing makes a man unclean 'from the outside'; no 'material' dirtiness makes a man impure in the moral sense. No washing, not even ritual washing, is by itself suited to produce moral purity. Moral purity has its wellspring exclusively in man's interior: int comes from the heart." (TOB 50:3) The impurity is not in the vision, but in the appetite. With the effects of sin, the spirit no longer rules the body as naturally as it did in original innocence. In this hotbed of resistence, we do what we don't want to and don't do what we want, as St. Paul says. But Christ brought a new vision and a new way to restore love to what it was created to be. The heart becomes a battlefield, in which we should learn to open ourselves to be strengthened within, in order to do "what the Spirit wants" (TOB 51:2). Erotic desire, understood in the Christian tradition, impels us in this direction. We must open our hearts to the "fullness of 'eros,' which implies the upward impulse of the human spirit toward what is true, good, and beautiful, so that what is 'erotic' also becomes true, good and beautiful." (TOB 48:1) We must recover ownership of our heart, in order to ever be able to give it to someone. "Within the sphere of this knowledge, man learns to distinguish between what, on the one hand, makes up the manifold richness of masculinity and femininity in the signs that spring from their perennial call and creative attraction and what, on the other hand, bears only the sign of concupiscence." (TOB 48:4)
     This battle in the heart is summed up in the last part of this section with the teaching on purity. John Paul II elaborates on the two types of purity, both equally important, understood in a Pauline way as "life according to the Spirit" (TOB 57:6). "From purity springs that singular beauty that permeates every sphere of reciprocal common life between human beings and allows them to express in it the simplicity and depth, the cordiality and unrepeatable authenticity of personal trust." (TOB 57:3) "The satisfaction of the passions is, in fact, one thing, quite another is the joy a person finds in possessing himself more fully, since in this way he can also become more fully a true gift for another person. The words Christ spoke in the Sermon on the Mount direct the human heart precisely toward this joy. We must entrust ourselves, our thoughts, and our actions to Christ's words in order to find joy and give it to others." (TOB 58:7)

Titian's Sacred and Profane Love
Can you guess which woman represents sacred love and which one represents profane love?
It might surprise you that the one wearing a dress symbolizes profane love, while the nude symolizes sacred love, which is unprotected and has no fear.  
and a little snippet of music: http://www.resonanceofthegift.com/Loss_and_Hope.html

Monday, October 10, 2011

4-ingredient Tuna Pasta

This is THE easiest pasta dish in the world... made from "non-perishable" ingredients I always have on hand in case I need a very last-minute dinner or lunch. The only thing that enters into preparation time is boiling the pasta.

The ingredients:
I actually used two cans of tuna. Plus about 250g linguine, a can of diced tomatoes with Italian seasonings and 200g soy cream.


The recipe:
Boil pasta according to directions, drain and add other ingredients. Add salt if needed. Top with parsely and serve with salad or soup if possible.

Friday, October 07, 2011

Parable of the Feast



Do you put on your Sunday best for God?

Listen to this week's Sunday, Sunday, Sunday Podcast:

Some of my favorite thoughts:
  • This is not just a regular invitation to a regular wedding, this is a royal invitation to a royal wedding... It's a validation of your worth, how important you are.
  • Okay, this turned very bad very quickly. It was supposed to be this great celebration and all of a sudden it turned into bloodshed because of the way people responded.
  • The king desires you to be in attendance with his son... it's a celebration of family. He wants your family to be in relationship and to encounter his family. This is set against the wedding feast and as we know every single mass is a sacrifice but it's also a wedding, it's where heaven and earth collide. There are so many things going on here.
  • We know from Revelation that the white garment you wear is an outer garment that is symbolic of your righteous deeds, if you're in a worthy state, if you're in a state of grace, if you're worthy to be there.
  • How many of us don't even take the time to wash up through the Sacrament of Reconciliation before we head to mass on Sunday? If we looked at the mass as this royal wedding invitation, this VIP invitation into intimacy with God, couldn't we take more seriously the opportunity to get to confession before mass...?
  • Christ's cross makes us worthy, but we still have the opportunity to reject the invitation, to reject putting on our Sunday best... He gives us the invitation in our Baptism, our Confirmation but OUR LIFE is our RSVP.
  • Not only does he give us what we want, more than we deserve, but he gives us what we need. He doesn't hold back. But we do.
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Thursday, October 06, 2011

Fatima and the real things

I went to Fatima yesterday (yes, I am the envy of many American Catholics and can say "I went to Fatima" as a day's activity). I went there for a meeting but ended up having some time in the sanctuary for walking around and confession. On the car ride home, this Laura Ingalls Wilder quote popped up in my mind:

“The real things haven't changed. It is still best to be honest and truthful; to make the most of what we have; to be happy with simple pleasures; and have courage when things go wrong.”

And I thought, I've been searching for so long... for the perfect life/community/spiritual revolution but the essential things haven't changed for 2000 years: prayer, Eucharist, Reconciliation. And you can do all those things in Fatima. We just need crazy movements, renewals and Marian apparitions to teach us the value of those really simple things. Humbling. And comforting.

We arrived at lunchtime and there were families picnicking everywhere. I loved it.
And I loved how they all had wine and meat sandwiches!