Wednesday, December 26, 2012

The True Presents of Christmas


The True Presents of Christmas

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Isn’t it sad that it is Jesus’ birthday and everyone gets presents except for him? That’s what the priest said at a mass for children at the school I work at. So I didn’t feel as bad when I didn’t have presents to give to my family members and friends at Christmas (a combination of laziness and being against the crazy present giving). What’s important is Jesus’ present, right?
 
 
 
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Monday, December 24, 2012

The Nutcracker

It was really special to go with my sister to see a ballet we both have memories of... the Nutcracker. We used to watch her dance school perform it every year and both of us have danced in it. I play the soundtrack every year for Chistmas. It was special to dress up, go downtown and be with my sister. It was inspiring to watch the human body be so graceful and playful... I feel we all must be made to dance.

 
A happy and holy Christmas to you and yours.

Friday, December 21, 2012

Christmas is for family

My parents got here this week and it has been a real pleasure to be with them and make food for my family. They came over to my house and we ate hummus and I played Christmas songs on the piano. Tonight I made calzones at my sister's house and her cat Koshka ran away from me. Apparently I'm too loud...?!

Hi Koshka... oh sorry Koshka...
  
"We spend precious hours fearing the inevitable. It would be wise to use that time adoring our families, cherishing our firends and living our lives."  - Maya Angelou

Wednesday, December 19, 2012

Little Women Quotes

I reread Little Women and, although the first chapters in I found it a bit cheesy, I really did enjoy reading it. It reminded me of the values still present in America nowadays, despite the growing materialism, which are what I think make America great. It also reminded me of what is really important in life. These things are family, sisterhood (and brotherhood), cultivating virtue (over talent, beauty, wealth), the joy of poverty and sharing with others, conversation, hard work, play, waiting, sacrifices, music, literature...
 
Here are a few of my favorite quotes:
 
"There are many Beths in the world, shy and quiet, sitting in corners till needed, and living for others so cheerfully that no one sees the sacrifices till the little cricket on the hearth stops chirping, and the sweet, sunshiny presence vanishes, leaving silence and shadow behind."
 
"To be loved and chosen by a good man is the best and sweetest thing which can happen to a woman, and I sincerely hope my girls may know this beautiful experience. It is natural to think of it, Meg, right to hope and wait for it, and wise to prepare for it, so that when the happy time comes, you may feel ready for the duties and worthy of the joy. My dear girls, I am ambitious for you, but not to have you make a dash in the world, marry rich men merely because they are rich, or have splendid houses, which are not homes becasue love is wanting. Money is a needful and preicous thing, and when well used, a noble thing, but I never want you to think it is ithe first or only prize to strive for. I'd rather see you poor men's wives, if you were happy, beloved, contented, than queens on thrones, without self-respect and peace."
 
"I think by Saturday night you will find that all play and no work is as bad as all work and no play."
 
"Young ladies in America love independence as much as their ancestors did, and are admired and respected for supporting themselves."
 
"Then it was that Margaret, sitting alone with tears dropping often on her work, felt how rich she had been in things more precious than any luxuries money could buy - in love, protection, peace, and health, the real blessings of life."
 
"...and make home happy by that exercise of those simple virtues which all may possess, and which all should love and value more than talent, wealth, or beauty."
 
"I shall be infinitely prouder of a lovable daughter with a talent for making life beautiful to herself and others."

Monday, December 17, 2012

Oreo gods have mercy

Dear oreo gods, 
How many times will I have to try the same recipe over and over again until I succeed at making homemade oreos? I'm hoping it will be with #4, as this weekend's third try was the best yet, but still produced not-sweet-enough oreos on steroids. 

The Martha Stewart Black-Eyed Pea Tacos recipe I finally got around to trying, on the other hand, was wonderful. I was so happy to make something so simple, delicious and healthy. I got a new magnet with an Alice in Wonderland quote in a secret santa gift exchange... it's a great quote. And I also went downtown to hear my really talented friends sing in their choirs in a really beautiful church. 



There is one of my friends: the closest one on the left... she's a soloist! 

Thursday, December 13, 2012

Orchids in the cold

Forget toddler years or learning to walk...
I'm sure there are fewer more satisfying things in life than watching your orchid lose its flowers, dry out, then a couple months later start shooting off a branch again... which will soon bloom. And in the middle of winter! 


"One must maintain a little bit of summer, even in the middle of winter." - Henry David Thoreau

Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Viva Mexico!

Today is the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe and I had a little dinner party to celebrate. Unfortunately, I made two mistakes I will learn from for the future: make the decorations the weekend before (I wasn't able to finish the day before) and not do it on a weekday(people were late and we felt pressured for time). Other than that, it was wonderful and the guests were absolutely five-star people. I am so blessed to know such amazing people. 

We had a special "Guadalupe wine", salsa, guacamole, black bean and sweet potato enchiladas (thanks to my sister for that recipe), a "starry" and yummy apple pie made by my baker friend, a brochure to a Guadalupe pilgrimage in case anyone was interested, stars and Frida Kalho (Mexican) decorations, and a pinata made from a Pinterest idea that was too strong and we weren't able to break! ...

Also, check out my article about saint parties on IgnitumToday: 
http://www.ignitumtoday.com/2012/12/12/how-to-host-a-catholic-party/

Monday, December 10, 2012

Hidden joy

“Rejoice with me,” the shepherd says, “I have found my sheep that was lost.” “Rejoice with me,” the woman says, “I have found the drachma I lost.” “Rejoice with me,” the father says, “this son of mine was lost and is found.”[…]
God rejoices. Not because the problem of the world have been solved, not because all human pain and suffering have come to an end, nor because thousands of people have been converted and are now praising Him for His goodness. No, God rejoices because one of His children who was lost has been found. What I am called to is to enter into the joy. It is God’s joy, not the joy that the world offers. It is the joy that comes from seeing a child walk home amid all the destruction, devastation, and anguish of the world. It is a hidden joy as inconspicuous as the flute player that Rembrandt painted in the wall above the head of the seated observer.[...]
Surely I will be called naive, unrealistic, and sentimental, and I will be accused of ignoring the “real” problems, the structural evils that underlie much of human misery. But God rejoices when one repentant sinner returns. Statistically that is not very interesting. But for God, numbers never seem to matter. Who knows whether the world is kept from destruction because of one, two, or three people who have continued to pray when the rest of humanity has lost hope and dissipated itself?
From God’s perspective one hidden act of repentance, one little gesture of selfless love, one moment of true forgiveness is all that is needed to bring God from His throne to run to His returning son and to fill heavens with sounds of divine joy.
(from The Return of the Prodigal Son by Henri Nouwen, 
p. 113-119, chapter “An invitation to joy”)

party

“Alegrai-vos comigo”, diz o pastor, “encontrei a ovelha que se tinha perdido”. “Alegrai-vos comigo”, diz a mulher, “encontrei a dracma que tinha perdido”. “Alegrai-vos”, diz o pai, “este meu filho estava perdido e foi encontrado”.[…]
Deus alegra-se. Não por terem sido resolvidos os problemas do mundo, não por se terem acabado a tristeza e o sofrimento humanos, não porque milhares de pessoas se tenham convertido e estejam agora a dar-Lhe graças pela sua bondade. Não. Deus alegra-Se porque um dos seus filhos se tinha perdido e foi encontrado. Ao que sou chamado é a unir-me a essa alegria. É a alegria de Deus, não a alegria que o mundo dá. É a alegria que advém de ver o filho a caminhar para casa no meio de toda a destruição, desolação e angústia do mundo. É uma alegria escondida, tão discreta como o flautista que Rembrandt pintou na parede, acima do curioso que está sentado.[…]
      Vão chamar-me ingénuo, talvez, pouco realista e sentimental, e vão acusar-me de ignorar os problemas “reais”, os males estruturais subjacentes a muita miséria humana; mas Deus alegra-Se com o regresso de um pecador arrependido. Estatisticamente, não é muito relevante. Mas parece que a Deus não Lhe interessam os números. Quem sabe se o mundo ainda não foi destruído por uma, duas ou três pessoas continuarem a rezar enquanto o resto da humanidade perdeu a esperança?
Na perspectiva de Deus, um acto oculto de arrependimento, um pequeno gesto de generosidade, um momento de verdadeiro perdão, é tudo quanto requer para Se erguer do trono, correr ao encontro do filho e encher o céu com brados de alegria divina.
(O Regresso do Filho Pródigo, Henri Nouwen, p. 127-128)

Thursday, December 06, 2012

That day I was awesome and made rocky road ice cream...

There are a few things you can't find in Portugal and sometimes impede you from living your life to the fullest: 
  • country music
  • indoor heating (at least, as a commonplace occurence)
  • patriotism
  • being able to stretch in public (and it not being considered impolite)
  • rocky road ice cream

The last of these I took upon myself to create! I doubled this recipe from pinterest and added almonds and colored marshmallows (the only ones you can seem to find here anyway). Next time, I'll use a lighter chocolate or more cream... it was a bit heavy. But good!And homemade. 





Monday, December 03, 2012

Comfiness and family

This weekend was spent pleasantly at my sister's house, pigging out on American food and being comfortable. I love the "comfiness" of her house: the fluffy couch, the flannel sheets, the flavored coffee. And I have also come to value having sisterhood more and more. 


"What can you do to promote world peace? Go home and love your family." - Mother Teresa

The view from her window, brunch, chai, grilled cheese and chocolate milk, Alice in Wonderland with Johnny Depp (really liked the movie, by the way)...