Wednesday, December 12, 2012

Viva Mexico!

Today is the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe and I had a little dinner party to celebrate. Unfortunately, I made two mistakes I will learn from for the future: make the decorations the weekend before (I wasn't able to finish the day before) and not do it on a weekday(people were late and we felt pressured for time). Other than that, it was wonderful and the guests were absolutely five-star people. I am so blessed to know such amazing people. 

We had a special "Guadalupe wine", salsa, guacamole, black bean and sweet potato enchiladas (thanks to my sister for that recipe), a "starry" and yummy apple pie made by my baker friend, a brochure to a Guadalupe pilgrimage in case anyone was interested, stars and Frida Kalho (Mexican) decorations, and a pinata made from a Pinterest idea that was too strong and we weren't able to break! ...

Also, check out my article about saint parties on IgnitumToday: 
http://www.ignitumtoday.com/2012/12/12/how-to-host-a-catholic-party/

Monday, December 10, 2012

Hidden joy

“Rejoice with me,” the shepherd says, “I have found my sheep that was lost.” “Rejoice with me,” the woman says, “I have found the drachma I lost.” “Rejoice with me,” the father says, “this son of mine was lost and is found.”[…]
God rejoices. Not because the problem of the world have been solved, not because all human pain and suffering have come to an end, nor because thousands of people have been converted and are now praising Him for His goodness. No, God rejoices because one of His children who was lost has been found. What I am called to is to enter into the joy. It is God’s joy, not the joy that the world offers. It is the joy that comes from seeing a child walk home amid all the destruction, devastation, and anguish of the world. It is a hidden joy as inconspicuous as the flute player that Rembrandt painted in the wall above the head of the seated observer.[...]
Surely I will be called naive, unrealistic, and sentimental, and I will be accused of ignoring the “real” problems, the structural evils that underlie much of human misery. But God rejoices when one repentant sinner returns. Statistically that is not very interesting. But for God, numbers never seem to matter. Who knows whether the world is kept from destruction because of one, two, or three people who have continued to pray when the rest of humanity has lost hope and dissipated itself?
From God’s perspective one hidden act of repentance, one little gesture of selfless love, one moment of true forgiveness is all that is needed to bring God from His throne to run to His returning son and to fill heavens with sounds of divine joy.
(from The Return of the Prodigal Son by Henri Nouwen, 
p. 113-119, chapter “An invitation to joy”)

party

“Alegrai-vos comigo”, diz o pastor, “encontrei a ovelha que se tinha perdido”. “Alegrai-vos comigo”, diz a mulher, “encontrei a dracma que tinha perdido”. “Alegrai-vos”, diz o pai, “este meu filho estava perdido e foi encontrado”.[…]
Deus alegra-se. Não por terem sido resolvidos os problemas do mundo, não por se terem acabado a tristeza e o sofrimento humanos, não porque milhares de pessoas se tenham convertido e estejam agora a dar-Lhe graças pela sua bondade. Não. Deus alegra-Se porque um dos seus filhos se tinha perdido e foi encontrado. Ao que sou chamado é a unir-me a essa alegria. É a alegria de Deus, não a alegria que o mundo dá. É a alegria que advém de ver o filho a caminhar para casa no meio de toda a destruição, desolação e angústia do mundo. É uma alegria escondida, tão discreta como o flautista que Rembrandt pintou na parede, acima do curioso que está sentado.[…]
      Vão chamar-me ingénuo, talvez, pouco realista e sentimental, e vão acusar-me de ignorar os problemas “reais”, os males estruturais subjacentes a muita miséria humana; mas Deus alegra-Se com o regresso de um pecador arrependido. Estatisticamente, não é muito relevante. Mas parece que a Deus não Lhe interessam os números. Quem sabe se o mundo ainda não foi destruído por uma, duas ou três pessoas continuarem a rezar enquanto o resto da humanidade perdeu a esperança?
Na perspectiva de Deus, um acto oculto de arrependimento, um pequeno gesto de generosidade, um momento de verdadeiro perdão, é tudo quanto requer para Se erguer do trono, correr ao encontro do filho e encher o céu com brados de alegria divina.
(O Regresso do Filho Pródigo, Henri Nouwen, p. 127-128)

Thursday, December 06, 2012

That day I was awesome and made rocky road ice cream...

There are a few things you can't find in Portugal and sometimes impede you from living your life to the fullest: 
  • country music
  • indoor heating (at least, as a commonplace occurence)
  • patriotism
  • being able to stretch in public (and it not being considered impolite)
  • rocky road ice cream

The last of these I took upon myself to create! I doubled this recipe from pinterest and added almonds and colored marshmallows (the only ones you can seem to find here anyway). Next time, I'll use a lighter chocolate or more cream... it was a bit heavy. But good!And homemade. 





Monday, December 03, 2012

Comfiness and family

This weekend was spent pleasantly at my sister's house, pigging out on American food and being comfortable. I love the "comfiness" of her house: the fluffy couch, the flannel sheets, the flavored coffee. And I have also come to value having sisterhood more and more. 


"What can you do to promote world peace? Go home and love your family." - Mother Teresa

The view from her window, brunch, chai, grilled cheese and chocolate milk, Alice in Wonderland with Johnny Depp (really liked the movie, by the way)...




Friday, November 30, 2012

Set the world on fire

I think our greatest fear of all must be to be alone. We're so relational. I've been trying to face this fear, making time for me and God at home at night, but it's hard. It's easier to turn on the TV or go online and forget about it all. 

I hope your weekend is slow and simple ...


"If you are what you should be, you would set the world on fire!" - Saint Catherine of Siena